MANJAM - INTERVIEW

Here is what Grant, the guy responsible for the best meeting point online for gay guys ManJam, has to say about Love, Attraction, Ambition, Passion, ... in this exclusive OhlalaParis Interview.

Out
GM: Your family and friends know. So if someone asks, you have to come clean. Without honesty there's no hope of getting real close to anyone.
Hearing
GM: We often listen but how often do we really hear what's being said? Put your opinions aside, don’t run over their words. Just listen. It’s an art.
Love
GM: We all desire it, madly. Don't ever be shy about expressing your feelings. Accept compliments and keep love alive with spontaneity and surprise.
Attraction
GM: The hormones kick in big time and the mutual chemistry means you both know which buttons to press and when.
Laughter
GM: Get over yourself, fast. If you can't laugh at each other and how difficult, awkward and useless you both are, it's curtains before breakfast.
Ambitious
GM: Don't get stuck in a rut. Always work beyond comfort zone and keep pushing the boundaries by setting new goals and challenges.

Passion
GM: It's what you do and share with each other that makes you both exciting and ultimately excited. Live in the moment and don’t wait for it to happen.
Art
GM: It's important you both have an appreciation for the creative process. Art plays a vital role in feeding our imagination and formulating our desires.
Respect
GM: It's all about open communication so make sure to talk to each other about anything and everything, and on a regular basis.
Insight
GM: Have sensitivity and compassion for others. Feel their passions, even though they may not be yours and try to understand who and what they are.
Sympathetic
GM: An understanding for each others drives, fears, ambitions and failures.

Grant Mitchell - ManJam

Comments

[BT]

Great list. Very meaningful. Can be used intimitely. WOOOF